In terms of adding to the repertoire of methods there was one interesting innovation tried by the ‘decision-making’ group. This was a role-play, and the need to use it came about because there was one man in the group who dominated the discussions and insisted that women had an equal say in decision-making. Finally (and on the spur of the moment) one of the participants said "For the next 5 minutes, I’ll play the wife and you be my husband", and developed a situation where the ‘wife’ had sold off a bag of grain to get herself a nose-ring that she had been asking her husband for the last two years.

Within the space of 5 minutes, the situation culminated in the ‘wife’ being beaten by the ‘husband’. The action was spontaneous; one more person in the group almost joined in, and the others who were watching agreed that such reactions were not uncommon.

At the concluding session, a checklist was circulated titled "Proven ways to keep women invisible on your project". (Not attached to this report. Copy available on request.)

ANNEXURE - A

Gender - biases concealed by deep rooted ideologies. About what is ‘natural’ and given ‘Gender-stereo-types’.
Need for awareness to ‘HOW’ of Gender Process to move from ‘What is’ to ‘What could be’. Planning for practical needs to strategies for empowerment.

Creates POWER RELATIONSHIPS. Patriarchy E.g. relationship of command and control.

Biological categorisation of ‘MALE’ & ‘FEMALE’ is socially categorised as ‘MEN’ & ‘WOMEN’. Acquiring a definition of social attributes of ‘Masculinity’ and ‘Feminity’. Vehicles of Gendering process. GENDER  

 

Skilling and De-skilling process of men and women.  

Gender - division of tasks, roles and responsibilities, internalised as ‘Natural’ state of affairs.

A social process that ascribes traits, attributes and POSITIONS and therefore PRIVILEGES to men and women.
A SOCIAL SYSTEM where roles and relationships are ascribed to/between men and women.

 

ANNEXURE - B

SKILLS IN RESPONSIBILITIES TASKS OVER 10 YEARS

 Area Of Work  

 

Men   Women 
10 years ago Now 10 years ago   Now
Agriculture 0000
0000
000
000
- 0000
Home Related 00 000 0000
0000
0000
000
Credit Related 00000
00000
0000
000
- 000
Cattle Related 00000
00000
00000 - 00000
Education 00000
00000
0000 - 000
000
Purchase of Assets 00000
00000
0000 - 0000
Marriage of Children 00000 000
000
00000 0000
Marketing/Selling 00000
00000
00000
00000
- 000

Separate interviews with men and women later jointly reconciled after much argument. Matrix developed on ground using stones, etc.

 

 

 

 

 

Annexure F

DECISION MAKING MATRIX
Village : D.Thammandrapalli

ISSUES INITIATION DISCUSSION DECISION
Crop Selection Agricultural Operations Marketing of Produce M
M
M
-
MW
-
M
M
M
Purchase of Household articles/assets Purchase of House, Land
Land Improvement
M
M
M
MW
MW
MW
MW
MW
M
Family Planning (Contraception) MW MW M
Education of Children MW MW M
Celebrating/Attending Festivals
-
in house
-
outside

W
M

MW
MW

W
M
Negotiating themarriage ofChildren:
-
Selection
-
Howmuchtospend
-
Dowry giving/receiving
MW
MW
MW
MW
MW
MW
MW*
MW
MW

* More Weightage given to a mans’ opinion.

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